Facing Race: Teaching Kids to Confront Racism Early and Why Talking About Race With Kids Can’t Wait

 Friends:

No matter what happens in the political arena, one truth remains: we must continue facing race. Laws may shift, leaders may change, but the urgent work of confronting racism—in our homes, schools, and communities—cannot be set aside. So I offer good medicine.

Source: Facing Race

Episode 5 of Facing Race (2020) focuses on how to teach children to be antiracist and how to help kids of color navigate the daily realities of racism. 

Research shows that babies notice racial differences, and by kindergarten, children often mirror the same racial beliefs as the adults around them. This makes early conversations about race not only important, but essential.

Race educators emphasize that parents should begin talking about race early and often. Robin DiAngelo, author of White Fragility, underscores why white families, in particular need, to take on this responsibility with their children, offering guidance for beginning those sometimes uncomfortable but necessary conversations (DiAngelo, 2018).

With all due respect to all parties involved, I see this as a spirit journey on which they must embark. I like how Cornell West in his book, Race Matters, says in so many words, "no one is untouched by the reality of white supremacy."

It's a global phenomenon, too.

The lesson here is clear: silence around race only reinforces the status quo. Speaking openly with children about racism equips them to see the world more critically and compassionately, and to participate in shaping a future where equity is possible.

-Angela Valenzuela

Reference

DiAngelo, R. (2018). White fragility: Why it’s so hard for White people to talk about racism. Beacon Press.

KING 5. (2025, September 1). Facing Race: Episode 5 [Video]. KING 5 News.

In episode 5 of “Facing Race,” we examine how to teach kids to be antiracist and how to help kids of color navigate racism. Several studies show babies can notice racial differences, and by the time a child starts kindergarten, they have the same beliefs as adults around them. Race educators say parents must start talking about race early. Robin DiAngelo, author of “White Fragility,” explains why it’s crucial for white families to discuss race with their children from a young age and shares tips for parents starting those conversations. "Facing Race" is a weekly series that airs on Sundays at 9:30 p.m. Pacific on KING 5 in Seattle. See more coverage: https://www.king5.com/facing-race